This is the point of this whole topic…
Relax factors seem to be a crutch to get the “results you want”, whether that is, to get results that make sense to you or to match experimental values…
In my mind it is just plain wrong to do that… we need to set relax factors that make sense by theory, not to get results we want…
Auto Relax throws another monkey wrench into the mix 
If we got the same results with any Relax Factors that converge, I would not be so upset…